Be grateful, even for the annoyances of life

The turtle

Repost from 5/17/11

Yesterday there was this HUGE turtle crossing the road, he was only half way across the road when my brother-in-law stopped him and told me about him. Never one to miss a neat moment I called to Maddie, my 2 year old  and told her we were going to see a turtle. We walked down the street all the while I was answering the same question "Where is the turtle?". I saw a car coming and actually walked into the middle of the street to stop the car from hitting the turtle. Often cars don't realize that what they are seeing is a live creature in the road and not already road kill. I made the decision at that moment that I had to make sure that he made it safely across the road.

So Maddie and I walk up to the turtle and I just can't believe how big he is! Gorgeous! I had no idea if it was a snapping turtle or a really HUGE box turtle. So I started to nudge him across the road with my foot and when he didn't try to fight me or bite I took the gamble and decided to pick him up. He went deep into his shell and I decided to carry him home. All afternoon we watched him and marveled at his size and beauty, and named him HIPPO. :) I even sat and performed Reiki on him. While I was touching his shell and sending Reiki he would pop his head out just a little. I could actually feel his heart beat or life force through the shell. Really neat connecting that way.

Last night I set him in the pasture and told him to go about his life with good health. I told Maddie that the turtle that we named Hippo had to go home and see his family and she understood and told him goodbye.

I was grateful for his brief visit, and I realized that I probably interrupted his day and his journey. It made me think of how many times in our lives someone just picks us up and takes us from our plans and our reaction to this disruption in our routine. What I have to keep in mind is that those disruptions are all important and part of our life path as well. We don't know the plan and all the factors, we have to accept things on faith.

Maybe that slow driver, that is so annoying was what kept us from getting into an accident. There were people on 9/11 who said that it was little things that kept them from being in the twin towers on time. One person broke her heel of her shoe, another stopped to get band aids, one had a child make a mess of an outfit that caused someone to miss a train. All of these things if you look at them are just things that can irk you and make you feel as if the world is against you. However, when you realize that these little problems kept the person from possibly dying that day you realize they were blessings.

I hope that the turtle made his way safely home. It could be that his little detour to my house was not only a treat for us but maybe it saved his life.

Churches need to teach connection to source

I went to church on Sunday. It was the first time in many years. As a recovering Catholic, I am gun shy to say the least. We decided to go to a non-denominational Christian church. The service was cute, small, and had a decent feel to it. . After communion, they sang one verse of a song about 20 times. The verse was about people having complete love for God. The congregation really got into it and each repeat was sung with more feeling. After the fifth repeat I felt the energy lifting to God in celebration. I could see the golden rays of energy coming down as the connection to source was opened. Feeling it in a group setting was incredible and it brought tears to my eyes. The goosebumps raised as I felt Grace wash over me. It was incredible and powerful...

Then church was over and we stumbled out into the sun. It hit me... how incredibly sad. For many people that would be their only peak at the divine they would have until they went to church again. I would wager that most of the congregation does not meditate or participate in energy work of any kind. Often churches lump alternative healing into a group that is taboo, like psychics. (the fact that the bible talks about Prophets, but demonizes psychics drives me nuts, but that is another topic) How sad that the masses are not taught how to access the source on their own. People are often taught from an early age that they have to GO to church or through a priest to feel God's love. What people should be taught is that they have a direct link to God if they would just be still and open themselves to it.  I'm not saying that going to church is pointless. It's a great way to join with community and share a love for your fellow man and God, but it shouldn't be their only link.

The experience made me realize how grateful I am that my unconventional life path has lead me to strive to be connected with God at all times. It also made me realize that I need to make sure that my children know how to access the source on their own. I don't want them to feel that they have to go through something or someone to feel what is theirs by divine right.

Hopes and Dreams are Essential

It is essential that we as humans hope and dream, pretend even. there is no harm in going shopping, trying things on, putting purses on your shoulder to see how they look, holding stunning earrings up to your ears to see how they feel. This doesn't mean you have to buy them. What's important is feeling the surge of these beautiful items in your universe. It's saying to the world that I deserve and will have fine items one day... just not at this moment. It's the hope that your particular money situation will change, that you are not destined to be financially strapped forever.

if you say to yourself that you are poor and can't afford these items, you are putting out to the universe that you are unworthy. That these items or things don't belong with a person like you. what a hopeless state to be in.

The law of attraction is real and it can work for or against you. the choice is yours. By allowing yourself to dream of how great that 28k hand blown chandelier shaped like a school of fish would look in your home, you are putting positive intentions out in the universe. On the other hand if you say to yourself, I like it, but I could never afford it... you are right, you never will,

Dream... Hope... Imagine

The universe will provide for your needs and wants... you just have to believe in the possibility.

Can you really love God and be filled with hate?

How can people say they love God but behave the way they do?
If you love God wouldn't you accept all of his children? Would it matter if they are gay/lesbian? Would it matter if they are Muslim, Jewish, or Wiccan? Would it matter if they are black, white, Mexican, Asian? If you love God how can you not love all his children? How can people truly believe that they love God, but have hate for other's in their heart? How many wars have been fought in the name of God? How many people abused or mistreated all due to an interpretation of God's word?

We are all here doing the best we can from our state of consciousness. We are all here to learn our lessons and perfect for God. Some of us choose very difficult lives. What if the junkie down the street is here to learn self love? Who are we to judge them or not love them. Even if we don't agree with someones belief or lifestyle, it doesn't mean that we should not love them. Loving someone does not mean that you have to like or agree with everything they do or say. Loving someone means you understand that they are one of God's children doing the best they can.

We are all his children, made in his likeness, made in love. How can we honor God if we don't strive to love and accept ALL of his children.

Tails of a Healer book - Must Read

I just finished a fantastic book! I literally finished it in 1 day because I couldn't put it down.  Tails of a Healer: Animals, Reiki & Shamanism by Rose DeDan.

The book is about a woman's journey to accepting her life purpose of becoming an animal intuitive and healer. The stories that she shares are witty, full of emotions, and real. If you have an interest in becoming a healer or are just curious about this incredible talent, I recommend grabbing this book. It helped to show me the wonderful capabilites of healers everywhere and the call to serve.

Kids love crystals - just make sure you clean them.

Kids love crystals. They attract children with their varied colors, the way they reflect the light, and their textures. Crystals also speak to children's innate desire to connect to all that is in nature. Crystals all have a healing property assigned to them. Let your child pick out the stones that resonate with him or her. Take note of the names of the stones that your child picks, you might find that he or she has picked a crystal whose healing vibration matches an issue your child is dealing with.

An Amethyst may be chosen for its beautiful purple color but maybe the child choosing the stone intuitively knows that Amethyst help with sleep issues, such as nightmares. Or maybe he or she chose the Hematite stone because it is black and shiny, but innately the body knew it would help the child with anxiety. The list of things that these beautiful, unique crystals can help with goes on and on. You may be amazed at how in tune our little ones are with the universe.

As soon as you get the crystals home, you will need to clean them off any residual energy attached to the stones from the many hands touching them. Cleaning their energy isn't complex nor does it need a ceremony.

· Place your stones in a bowl with mild detergent, getting rid of any dust or stickiness

· Rinse the stones to make sure there is not a soap residue left behind.

· Dry your stones and they are good to go

· For an extra boost dry the crystals in bright sunlight. Letting them dry naturally.

· Clean the crystals periodically if they start to look dull, dusty, or dirty. This helps to keep their healing energies fresh.

Let your child take the lead, watch which ones they gravitate to more than others. One idea is to allow your child to wear their preferred crystal of the day as a necklace. Here is a link to a pendant cage that won’t break your bank but is functional enough to allow you to change the crystals.  You can use leather or rope found in any craft store to make an necklace.

http://www.etsy.com/listing/87991335/30mm-silver-spiral-cage-pendant-for?ref=exp_listing

Helping Children with Night Terrors

Has your child ever woken up in the middle of the night screaming, inconsolable, incoherent, and seemingly still asleep? The typical name for this is called “Night Terrors”.  They are a real problem for many parents who have no idea how to help their child.

Night Terrors are much more frightening than an average bad dream. Symptoms of a night terror can range from mild to extreme.

·         Screaming, crying, even moaning – not easily consoled

·         Unable to communicate clearly. (All one of mine would say is OW!)

·         Not wanting to be touched – even acting as if every touch hurts them.

·         Getting out of bed, like sleepwalking but more in an attempt to find a safe space. Going under the bed or into a corner in a protective stance.

·         Hitting anyone who tries to help them.

·         Hitting their selves in frustration.

·         Eyes opened wide and glassy (but not really seeing) or completely closed as if still asleep.

Theories as to the cause of Night Terrors vary greatly. Some believe that there is a direct connection with what is happening in the child’s world at that moment.  Have there been big changes in the little one’s life? Is there turmoil at home, daycare, or school? Others believe that Night Terrors are caused by remembrance of past life events; that the child is remembering traumatic events that took place in a previous lifetime. Since young children are still new on the earth plane they have soul memories that their subconscious is still processing. Another theory is that during the night the soul of the child leaves the body (astral projection) to learn and explore other places.  Children born during this time often have a higher vibrational level and need to leave their bodies to stretch and exercise, as it is hard for their little body to hold such a large vibrational field.  

It is believed that while a child is dreaming, reliving a past event, or traveling, they are woken too early. Something has caused them to awaken before they are ready to come back into the present, fully conscious and aware. Some believe that the child’s soul is forced back into the body too quickly which is painful and disorienting. 

I have experienced Night Terrors with two of my children. Here is what I found helped to lessen the symptoms and even lengthen the time in between episodes:

1.       Investigate if something could be waking your child. Are they hot or cold? Do you have a pet that could be jumping on their bed, startling them?  Record the time when the incident occurs. If you find a pattern, is there a mechanical event happening in the house that could cause the child to awaken? (water heater or softener making noise etc.)

2.       Make sure your child is drinking enough water. Dehydration can make all the symptoms worse.

3.       Don’t react to your child’s Night Terror with frustration or alarm. This can be hard when your sleep has been disrupted and you feel helpless.

4.       Follow your child’s cues. If they don’t want to be touched,  don’t touch them unless you need to restrain them from hurting themselves. Likewise, if your child wants to get out of bed, let them. Moving around often helps the child “wake” sooner.  Keep the child safe, but don’t try to manipulate the situation.

5.       Lastly, and the most important thing that helps me is to keep a calm voice and repeat to the child:

“You are safe, in this time, in this place. You are safe. You are ok. You are here with me.” 

I have sat on the floor and repeated this until I see recognition in their eyes and they cometo me for the physical comfort to get back to sleep.  I know that it sounds goofy, but it has helped with both my children.  Whether their Night Terrors are from current things, past life events, or from astral travel, repeating the above phrase brings her awareness back to me so that I can help.

I hope these tips help and I would love to receive your feedback.  I also recommend talking to your doctor and even videotaping an incidence, so that the doctor can see what you are dealing with. Until a person has experienced this first hand, they don’t really understand how frightening this can be.